Pricey Pulse,
I do know what I did sounds wild, however hear me out. I’ve been deeply in love with this man for over a yr. He was candy at first, however began pulling away emotionally and performing chilly. I obtained determined. Certainly one of my associates instructed me about this “outdated trick” — that for those who cook dinner for a person utilizing your menstrual blood, he’ll turn out to be obsessive about you and by no means depart.
So I attempted it. I added just a bit to his meals — a couple of times — hoping it could create that unbreakable bond. However now, as a substitute of chasing me or performing obsessed, he’s falling sick. He’s all the time drained, vomiting and may’t appear to get well. He has turn out to be pale and so weak. Typically he acts like he can’t acknowledge me. It’s scary. His mother and father are nervous that he’ll finally die and I’m scared too.
Medical doctors don’t even know what’s improper. He doesn’t suspect a factor, however I really feel extraordinarily responsible.
I don’t know what to do. Is that this some sort of religious backlash? Ought to I confess? Or simply depart and hope nothing worse occurs?
-Cindy
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Hey Cindy,
Sharing this with us takes plenty of bravery. Thanks for confiding in us.
In all honesty, you didn’t do that since you’re evil — you probably did it since you have been frightened of shedding somebody you liked. However love born from concern by no means ends effectively. You tried to make him keep, however now he’s slipping away, and deep down, you realize this isn’t what you needed.
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You want to forgive your self first. Then take the subsequent step: converse to somebody spiritually grounded, search cleaning, and most of all — let him go. Actual love would not want manipulation to outlive. What’s meant for you received’t want blood, secrets and techniques, or ache to remain. It’s not too late to make issues proper. Begin with honesty — with your self, and possibly even with him.
-Pulse
